While men are often the topic of cheating, women have a much harsher opinion of it when they do it. According to research, men feel guilt when they cheat, while the majority of women cheaters don’t. This is simply because a woman feels entitled to be happy, and being ‘entitled’ means that she has the right to reach this destination by any means possible. This is both the good and bad news.
Let’s start with the bad. This can be a big problem for you because it means that if you are unable to make her happy, she may feel entitled to find a man who will. The good news is there are seven tips to help keep most any woman happy and faithful.
1. Curiosity Saved the Relationship
Your number one defense to ensuring a happy relationship is to shower your girl with compliments and curiosity. When a woman feels neglected, she will look for excitement outside of your relationship. To feed into any anxious energy she may have, never stop trying to discover and learn new things about her. One way to do this is to find ways to spend time together through common interests and hobbies.
2. Appreciate Her
Let your girl know you appreciate her. Give her praise when she does something special and don’t forget to say, “Thank you.” Most importantly, do something nice for her at least once a day, whether it’s a love note, special dinner, or just a simple back massage.
3. Action Over Reaction
If you sense something is wrong with your girl, ask her about it. You should never allow bad feelings to harbor. Ask her if there is anything about the relationship that isn’t working, and take anything she says seriously. The worst thing you can do is hide your head in the sand to the obvious signs of a problem. Action, beats reaction–almost always.
4. Choose Your Battles
When you do decide to air out any differences, make sure you’re arguing over a real problem. Many disagreements are caused by external symptoms (coming home late, etc.), rather than the true cause (lack of communication, intimacy, etc.).
5. One Strike, She’s Out
There is no three strikes your out rule when it comes to cheating. Every girl gets one chance, and if she fails, then she should be out of your life. Women are either faithful, or they are not; there is no gray area here. And keep in mind that she will be less likely to cheat if she understands that she only gets one chance.
6. Positive Reinforcement
To harvest positive energy, concentrate on the good things in your relationship, rather than the bad. In other words, reward your partner for what she does that makes you happy (compliments, praise, etc.), and eventually the good will outnumber the bad. This is the most effective way to modify unwanted behavior, without becoming a nag in the process.
7. Be Happy
If you’re having a difficult time finding the good in your partner, remember what attracted you to her in the first place. If you are still drawing a blank, ask yourself if it is really your partner who is the problem, because it may have more to do with you. Bored, unhappy men, experience boring and unhappy relationships. When you feel good about yourself, your partner will feel good about you, too.
If your girlfriend has proven herself to be untrustworthy, instead of worrying about cheat-proofing your relationship, you should be “loser” proofing your life, instead. This translates into getting rid of your girl and overhauling your entire attitude with women. The idea is to become the kind of man who does not attract (or accept) bad girls into your life.
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