Guys, we all know that time is money. However, time is also lost opportunity, and if you are wasting time with a woman who is going to be bad in bed, you need to decide if that time is worth it to you.
The problem is, many women can take up to a few months to really get comfortable with a guy while having sex, which means that you may end up giving her a lot of second chances until you decide her deadfish demeanor under the sheets is about as good as it will ever get. Quit wasting time, and get down to the truth with these five signs.
1. Kiss
A guy should always be looking to see exactly how adventurous a girl gets during the first kiss. If she uses only a tiny bit of tongue, and wraps the session up quickly, you should assume the worst. However, if she likes it slightly damp, sensual, ever-lasting, and vacuum intense, she will be more likely remember the rubber sheets, salad tongs, and value-sized canister of Crisco oil on your third date.
2. Hips
Men love to watch a woman’s hips sway back and forth as she walks. And there is a very good reason for this. The way a woman uses her hips says a lot about how much control she has over her lower extremities. If she can shake it in the vertical, she will also likely know how to shake it in the horizontal. Women pay attention to the way a man dances to suggest if he will be good in the sack. Well, the same thing goes for her too. If you want to get a really good picture of how she’ll be, take her out for a night of dancing.
3. Touch
A guy can tell a lot from a first date, just by how a woman touches him. A woman who is comfortable with touching him in public, will probably be even more comfortable once you get her behind closed doors. A gentle caressing kitten in a restaurant, could be a ferocious man eating tiger in the bedroom. However, a clammy oyster on the dance floor of a hot club, will probably be just as dank and cold on the sofa afterward.
4. Vocalization
In the film, When Harry Met Sally, Meg Ryan fakes an orgasm in the middle of the restaurant with Billy Crystal. Now, I’m not going to discuss the fact of whether or not a guy can tell the difference between a real or fake orgasm. What matters most, is that she would have been the sexiest woman in the restaurant to any man, because she had already proven herself worthy. The sound of a womans voice, and the way she expresses herself in words, will cultivate to be at least a quarter of your enjoyment in bed. Pay attention to the vocal habits of any woman, and you will get a hint of the way she may express herself during sex. Quite frankly, there is nothing like a woman who knows how to ‘get into’ whatever it is that she is doing.
5. Enthusiasm
Contrary to popular belief, men do not want sex to be the only conversation at hand on a date. However, we do like a little prelude to the topic if it fits the moment. When a woman brings up sex in a casual, classy fashion, it lets you know that she might be up for it if the occasion calls. Men like women who are a little too shy and coy to talk about it during the first couple dates. However, when push comes to shove, once she gets to know you a little better, she will dish out the details with the as much enthusiasm and color as a drunk, virgin sailor.
Not every worthwhile woman will have sex with you within the first couple dates. However, only the worthwhile ones will be worth your wait.
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