If you’re reading this, you are probably a NICE GUY who is trying to connect with women, but whatever you’ve been doing so far just isn’t working. I understand how frustrating that is. You want to be the man who can draw women to him. but, let me give you some insight…
The men who travel in dating’s fast lane don’t have it all worked out either. They might get the girl to begin with, but they don’t necessarily have what it takes to keep her. Here’s the thing with us gals.
To ALL of us, the “Perfect Guy” has that cocky confidence that excites and surprises, yet he’s still considerate and caring. He is the blend of the bad guy and Mr nice guy AND, the man who can get ANY girl has mastered the strategies for blending the two.
So how do you get a piece of this perfect combo?
It’s simply really.
1) These men have committed to learning how to bring out their absolute best game and I don’t mean in the flirting sense. These guys have learnt how to bring out their best selves. Once he has achieved this, he knows when and how to bring on the BAD BOY appeal. He is comfortable in his own power, and can take action on the spur of the moment. Women love that element of surprise and mystery. They want to be swept off their feet. He doesn’t bend himself inside out to be at her beck and call. It’s this kind of independent strength we girls are attracted to.
2) Then believe it or not but their nice guy, seals the deal. You see, the thing women love about the NICE GUY is that he’s considerate of her needs. He makes her feel like she’s the center of attention. He can still surprise her, but Mr NICE GUY does it with a well-planned gift that he knows is her favorite flower or wine or color or whatever– It doesn’t have to be grand, but it does have to show her that he’s put some effort into finding out her special likes.
Point 1 plus point 2 = the perfect guy to ALL women! To be one or the other is not enough.
The bad guy….
Sure he can get em’but he won’t be able to keep em’ (not the smart, sexy, intelligent ones anyway). The most attractive man is proud of himself. His inner strength outshines all those guys who are still stuck in the shallows of being nice. And his easy confidence sweeps the bad boys aside.
This confident man will turn a woman’s head every time.
When you start to understand more about your unique strengths, and combine that with a real understanding of women, YOU BECOME THAT MAN.
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If you’ve got this far…..Why haven’t you clicked yet? Remember, confident guys don’t procrastinate. They go for it and see what happens.
This post has been featured by dating expert for men, and author, Erica Black
About Dr. Eric J. Leech
Eric has written for over a decade. Then one day he created Urbasm.com, a site for every guy.
About Dr. Eric J. Leech