The art of kissing can get a little tricky. Just when you think you have it all figured out, you realize you don’t. Kissing is about self-control and letting loose, holding back then plunging forward, taking your time and rushing through, and holding your breath then heaving like a banshee.
Imagine each kiss as if you were the recipient. If it feels good to your imagination, then it will probably feels good to her. As a guy, the biggest thing you’re going to have to watch out for is getting too carried away. A good rule is to keep all your motions moderate, because, as we all know, too much of anything can be bad.
For example, a gentle rolling of the tongue in your partner’s mouth, while nibbling at her lower lip is a nice way to heighten the moment. Jabbing your tongue in her mouth, and then darting it in and out as if you were trying to stab her liver, is not good. Neither is licking her face as if you were lapping up the last few drops of ice cream off of a cone. Saliva control, men… learn it, and you’ll (she’ll) thank us.
The First Kiss
The most important kiss is always the first. She has been anticipating it all evening, but just didn’t know when you were going to strike. Build the moment by moving in close to her, and then easing back. Look her in the eye, and wait for her desire to build. Now, just when it looks like she could almost gush, go in and make several small kisses around their mouth. Once you’re confidence has reached its peak, go in for the frenching.
Here are a few more tips to help you round that first base:
About Dr. Eric J. Leech
Eric has written for over a decade. Then one day he created Urbasm.com, a site for every guy.
About Dr. Eric J. Leech