When you read an article title like this, a lot of different things may be cascading through your mind. What we are referring to is the idea that ugly women fit best with ugly guys, average women are boring, and sexy women are reserved for George Clooney. What you need to understand about women, is they are very competitive. When women see a guy they like, they don’t only set their sights on him, but calculate their probability of fending off her competition, and holding onto him over the long haul. What this means is that women rarely go for a guy who is out of her league. It is just too risky. So, when you approach an absolutely beautiful woman as an average guy, she may see you as a safe bet, and be more interested then you could ever imagine.
Another side to this, is that women do not base their initial attraction entirely on looks, and women rarely have the same preferences. Men must have all got together and created one master hottie list, because according to most studies, all guys are universally attracted to the same types of women. Women, on the other hand, do not have universal guidelines. Each woman has her own taste, and rarely will a group of women like the same guy. Women gauge a man by his stance, confidence, humor, and interest. This means that just about any man has a chance of getting any level of woman, as long as he can allude the impression that he is worth her while.
With this said, there is one kind of man who can attract many beautiful women at the same time, and this is the man in demand. Many studies have shown that women find married men attractive, and what makes them particularly interesting is that he has been deemed worthy by another female. In other words, one woman has claimed him to be a good catch, so other women assume she must know what she’s talking about. Women realize the amount of work that goes into getting to know a guy. Several months can be lost in the wrong guy if she is not careful, which is why most women gravitate towards any guy who has already passed another woman’s test.
You can allow this to work in your advantage, if one woman out of a group sends you the message that she’s interested. In this situation, you approach the group, and give each woman equal attention. As the women begin to compete for your favor, there is a good chance you will be able to take your pick of which one to take home. However, don’t assume your magical powers will last forever, as once you’re alone with her, it will be up to you to maintain that interest by proving her initial judgement was accurate.
This is a good place to remind you, that sometimes the wall-flower is the best women of the bunch. Women take full advantage of the powers of makeup, glitter, and bling, and just because she looks great on the outside, doesn’t mean she will live up to that promise. If you’ve ever woke up on a Sunday afternoon next to a woman who looked like Mickey Rourke, you have probably been victim to a combination of glamour products and alcohol, which make women look great under the moonlight, but not so tantalizing in the daylight.
The one dating rule that all urban males should live by in this day and age, is to never judge a woman by her appearance.
About Dr. Eric J. Leech
Eric has written for over a decade. Then one day he created Urbasm.com, a site for every guy.
About Dr. Eric J. Leech