If you’re a man, and have heard the word, “Already?” during your love-making sessions, you just may be a minute-man. The good news is that you are not alone. Looking at much of the research out there, if you take away the BJ to get ready, the introduction stage of getting in the motions, and get right down to the thrust and bust, you may come up with just a little over two-minutes. Considering a woman can take over 20 minutes to reach hers, that’s a lot of cunnilingus left for you to do. However, we’ve got a couple of better ideas for you to try.
Stop!– Probably the most simplest technique that therapists recommend, and we’d imagine you have already tried, is to STOP once you feel the urge to splurge. The reason this method often fails is guys tend to overestimate their staying power, and stop too late. The moment thing start feeling good, take a five second breather, then start again.
Squeeze Play– More than a dozen sex therapists swear by this technique, which is good enough for us. What you do, is every time you feel your Big O coming on, you squeeze the tip of your penis with your fingers, with just enough force to repress your ejaculatory response. You can do this as often as you need to, and best of all, according to the art of Tantric Sex (withholding ejaculation), this will make your orgasm that much more explosive once you do let go.
Ugly Betty– Another technique some guys swear by is called the Ugly Betty. This is where you imagine sexing with the most grotesque woman on the planet, while focusing on tensing the muscles around the shaft of the penis. This will often knock you off your game, and allow for at least several extra strokes before losing your socks for good.
Bag it– Our final advice is to make use of anything that will dull the pleasure sensors around the penis. A condom is a great buzz kill, and it has a really great side effect of avoiding disease and unwanted baby’s. Benzocaine is another popular option that works by numbing the pleasure sensors, and can buy you up to several extra minutes. The key to Benzocaine is to use it “underneath” your condom, so you don’t dull your partner’s pleasure receptors, and end up doing 60 minutes of cunnilingus.
Happy Trails!
About Dr. Eric J. Leech
Eric has written for over a decade. Then one day he created Urbasm.com, a site for every guy.
About Dr. Eric J. Leech