Yeah guys, we know your sweating, grunting… trying to put on the best show as possible for your lady. The problem is, it is not all about your performance. In many ways, your ability to properly sex a girl is what we like to call TFC, or you might remember it better as “Tender Fu**ing Care.” What these letters represent are your timing, foreplay, and compliments.
Tip #1: Know her schedule- Some women get crazy horny during her period; some feel crappy, and some guys would probably pass out if they saw half the stuff that comes out of that thing. What-ever yours or her pleasure is, make sure you time it right so that you’ll both be in the mood to get it on!
Tip #2: What to do when she is “too tired”- What you do when she gives you this old excuse, make dinner (macaroni and cheese should do fine), and draw her a warm bath. By the time she has turned into a prune, she’ll be revived, and ready to get it on!
Tip #3: Compliment… compliment… compliment!- One of the biggest reasons why women avoid sex, is because they just don’t feel sexy. If you are guilty of bantering how she has gained a few pounds, or that she looks like hell… all we can say is, we hope you don’t like sex very much, because you probably won’t be getting a lot of it.
Tip #4: Don’t complain about the amount of sex you’re getting- It works like this. You complain that you never have sex. She puts in a little effort to make more time, and you still complain. So, then she feels like a failure, and just gives up entirely. In other words, encourage her efforts with positive reinforcement (“thanks honey, I noticed that you’ve been trying to make more time for sex”); otherwise, you’ll only be sabotaging your own happy ending!
About Dr. Eric J. Leech
Eric has written for over a decade. Then one day he created Urbasm.com, a site for every guy.
About Dr. Eric J. Leech